it seems that my lender try to harrass me out of the loan. They asked me for same type of documents for at least 3 times. for example, I recieved gift fund from my family, and have send them the copy of clear check from my family, now they're asking me to get bank statements from my family to prove that money did come from them. and since I have some collection accounts, they want me to call up each creditor to get a statement obtain the amount I need to pay off and will pay off at the cloing date through my title agency. My question is, 1. am I suppose to do all these?is it normal that the lender doing this to me? 2. is it too late to go to a different lender since the selling contract is due by the end of this month? I'd really appreciate if somebody could give some tips!!