We just bought our first house and I really want to re-do the kitchen cabinets. They are maple and I don;t like the color of them- its sort of yellowish. What is the best way to remove the finish on them? Is there a way I can lighten the wood? Or should I paint them white? Someone suggested I white wash them but I don't know how to do that. Does anyone know where I can find a picture on the web of an example of white washing would look like?