use a sealer with a low gloss or matte finish.

http://flooringworld.org/floorsearch.php?query=low+gloss+hardwood+sealer

http://flooringworld.org/floorsearch.php?query=matte+finish+hardwood+sealer

the guys at http://floormasters.com/ might be more help as to specific products ... they are all hardwood refinishing professionals.

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Thanks for your help. I will check out the matte finish.