#1 the two wires out of the remote reciever goes to the ceiling box (white to white and Black to Black) #2 the three wires coming out should hook-up to the fan wires as; white to white(a/c netural) black to black(a/c load for fan motor)and blue to blue for the light. #3the ceiling Box has a white ,black, red and gnd. the Red SHOULD be HOT at all times( check this with a meter or a test lite).the Black should be HOT only when the wall switch is ON. ** Note if you want to have total control and the ability to shut the fan/lite off from the wall switch use the black wire. And the white to white, and the Gnd wire to the fixture (fan) base. Use a wire nut to secure eather black or red wire.